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Noticing the Unseen: Reflecting on Accomplishments and Aspirations

This image is split in two, on the righthand side is a quote - black text on a white background. On the left is a black and white photo of Marie Curie. It was taken around 1920 when she would have been in her early 50s. It shows a white woman sat at a slight angle facing the left but with her turning to look directly at the camera. Her hair is tied back with some whisps of hair escaping. She is wearinf a collared blouse witha light background and a square pattern. A black jacket is being warn fastened over this.
The text reads: "One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains to be done." (Marie Curie)

Today’s quote is:

“One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains to be done.” (Marie Curie)

Happy International Women’s Day! Today, as we honor the remarkable contributions of women throughout history, let’s take a moment to reflect on the profound wisdom encapsulated in their words. You may have been noticing a slight change in the images with each quote this week as they have each shown the authors of each quote. In celebration of Women’s History Month, each daily quote has been carefully chosen from historical women who have left an indelible mark on the world in their own way.

Today’s quote, as with all the other quotes this week, these words hold a timeless truth that transcends gender and speaks to the universal human experience of progress and aspiration.

In the apparent fast-paced world, it’s all too easy to become consumed by the constant pursuit of goals and objectives. We may find ourselves relentlessly pushing forward, always looking to the next task or challenge, without pausing to acknowledge the milestones we’ve already achieved. Yet, as Marie Curie reminds us, our focus tends to gravitate towards what remains to be done, rather than what has already been accomplished.

This tendency to overlook our past accomplishments can lead to a distorted perception of our progress. We may underestimate our abilities, feeling as though we’re still at the beginning of our journey, when in reality, we’ve come much further than we realise. By failing to recognise our achievements, we deprive ourselves of the opportunity to celebrate our successes and cultivate a sense of fulfillment. It can also hold us back because we just dont take steps we feel are more appropriate with more experience etc.

Moreover, the relentless pursuit of future goals can result in a perpetual state of striving and dissatisfaction. We may become so fixated on what lies ahead that we lose sight of the present moment and the opportunities it holds. However, by shifting our perspective and embracing the journey itself, we can find meaning and purpose in each step forward, no matter how small.

So often it’s that noticing that can make the difference – sometimes it can be noticing that a change has already happened and slipped by us, other times it can be noticing a behavior or habit in thinking earlier and earlier so you can have the option to choose to stop that in that moment earlier. It may not seem that way at the time but I think that once that awareness has begun to develop then often awareness and momentum does the rest.

Noticing in my coaching

In my coaching practice, I’ve embraced the role of a guide. I perceive myself as a facilitator who illuminates the path by pointing out key observations and prompting clients with questions like, ‘Have you noticed this?’ My aim is to shed light on both the subtle nuances and the significant patterns that influence their experiences and decisions, effectively turning the unseen into the seen.

Sometimes, what I point out may seem like a minor detail, relevant only to a specific project or task at hand. Other times, it’s a deeper observation about how we humans work that can have far-reaching implications for how my clients perceive themselves and navigate their lives.

By serving as a guide in this way, I aim to create moments of awareness and insight that empower my clients to make more informed choices and take meaningful action. Whether it’s noticing an innocent missunderstanding or thinking that’s holding them back or recognizing a small but significant win, these moments of noticing can spark profound shifts in perspective and behavior.

Ultimately, my goal as a guide is to help clients develop a heightened sense of awareness and agency in their lives. By encouraging them to pay attention to what’s happening within and around them, I empower them to embrace their potential for growth, resilience, and fulfillment.

In conclusion, Marie Curie’s timeless words remind us of the power of noticing in our journey of personal and professional growth. By acknowledging our accomplishments, embracing the journey, and cultivating gratitude for the opportunities ahead, we open ourselves to the transformative potential of noticing. On this International Women’s Day and throughout Women’s History Month, let us honor the past, celebrate the present, and inspire the future through the act of noticing

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.


Nurturing Aspirations: Guiding Clients on a Journey of Belief and Beauty

A warm glowing from the sun is in the top left with a blue sky and fluffy clouds. On the right hand side of the image are two tall radient sunflowers growing towards the sun.
The text reads "Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead." (Louisa May Alcott)

Today’s quote of the day:

“Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead.” (Louisa May Alcott)

As coaches, we resonate with the profound journey of guiding our clients towards their highest aspirations—those radiant beacons that light their path towards self-realization.

Distinguishing Aspirations, Desires, and Goals:

In the coaching landscape, the terms “aspiration,” “desire,” and “goal” often intermingle. I selected this quote as a prompt to ponder if clients are articulating their highest aspirations or merely expressing momentary desires. Do you find that clients sometimes present what seems like a logical next step rather than revealing what lies beyond? Reflecting on these distinctions can deepen our understanding of our clients’ true yearnings and guide them towards aspirations that resonate on a profound level.

Personally I find there is a very different feel and look when a client is talking about what they really want rather than, for example, settling for what they think they should do next. I like the imagery of sunshine with regards to this as there is a warmth and light that I associate with witnessing this, and when I’m in the position of a client – experiencing.

The Beauty and Joy in Aspirations:

At the heart of Alcott’s words lies a reminder of the beauty and joy encapsulated in our clients’ aspirations. These are not just waypoints on a journey; they are the sunlit dreams that fuel their commitment to self-discovery and growth. As coaches, it’s a privilege to witness and honor the depth of these aspirations, appreciating the unique radiance each client brings to their coaching journey.

The Faith Clients Place in Us:

I think that this quote also underscores the implicit trust clients place in us as guides. They reveal their highest aspirations, vulnerable and hopeful, seeking our support in navigating the path ahead. Sometimes its a revelation to themselves at the same time that they share with you. Recognizing the sacred nature of this trust invites us to approach coaching with a deep sense of responsibility and a commitment to fostering an environment where these aspirations can flourish.

The Journey of Belief:

The coaching journey for many is about possibility — the belief in the possibility of reaching those faraway aspirations. As a coach for me its not just about the destination but providing support on the route there, because the journey itself can be transformative. It’s the collective endeavor to follow where aspirations lead, embracing the growth, learning, and self-discovery along the way.

Opening the Discussion:

Now, it’s your turn. How does Alcott’s quote resonate with your coaching practice? How do you navigate between aspirations, desires, and goals with your clients? Is there a difference for you? Share your thoughts, experiences, and insights in the comments below.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen provides here.