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Illuminating Insights: How Moments of Clarity Shape Our Understanding and Decisions

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Today’s quote of the day is:

“A moment’s insight is sometimes worth a life’s experience.” (Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.)

Let’s take a moment to consider: what does ‘insight’ mean to you? For me, an insight is a new thought that provides a deeper, more accurate perspective on something or someone.

Defining Insight: An insight doesn’t merely rearrange what we know—it transforms how we understand. When insight strikes, it’s like a light turning on in a previously dark room. Suddenly, a clear path forward emerges where there was only uncertainty before. Whether it’s resolving a complex problem at work or navigating a personal relationship, the clarity from a true insight can feel like discovering a map that leads out of a maze.

Insights can appear as a seemingly obvious idea, or they might integrate so naturally into our actions that we barely notice the integration. Sometimes, they completely rearrange how we perceive the world—both externally and how we see ourselves. It can only take a moment so that we see something that a massive impact upon us – even if we’ve spent our entire lifetime up until that moment believing something entirely different.

The Source of Insights: Where do these transformative thoughts come from? Often, they arrive unexpectedly—during a walk, in the shower, or in the quiet moments just before sleep. It seems our brain shifts gears when we’re not actively problem-solving, allowing disparate ideas to merge into something new and meaningful.

They seem to come out of the blue. For me, it’s when we get quieter. It’s as if my intellect, which has spent a lifetime typically buzzing with activity, decides to take a ‘holiday.’ This isn’t about stopping thinking entirely, but rather allowing the constant analysis and planning to step back temporarily. When my mind isn’t fixated on solving or controlling everything, it frees up space for deeper insights to emerge. In these moments, my thinking slows down—there’s no fixed time it takes—and my mental chatter quiets. It’s in this quieter space beneath the busy surface that my inner knowing becomes more apparent. All I do is notice and listen, without the need to direct or judge the thoughts that arise. [Note, the more I play with this the more those holidays are turning into longer spells, and I’ve described it at times more like a retirement, my intellect can still potter and get involved when it wants, but there’s less that look like it’s its job to figure out.]

As coaches, you’re probably use to phrases such as “the client has their own answers.” As a Transformational coach, I spend a lot of time pointing people towards this inner world, more a dimension, where creativity seems to spring from and our own wisdom “hangs out”. Which allows those answers to more easily appear at their own pace and speed, without the hard work of figuring it all out, because if nothing else the answers that often come are usually surprising and do not follow a logical intellectual formula.

The Impact of Insights: The value of a single insight can be immense. Consider how Isaac Newton’s insight into gravity, prompted by a falling apple, fundamentally changed our understanding of the universe. Or think about how a sudden realization about a loved one can mend a strained relationship. These moments are not just about acquiring information; they are about gaining new perspectives that can radically shift our actions and outcomes.

Conclusion: Insights are powerful because they cut through noise and confusion to reveal underlying truths. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. was right—a moment’s insight can indeed be worth a life’s experience and light up new understandings. Would you be open to experiencing more of those moments? Personally, I think that begins by recognizing that this profound potential is available to us. Then, it’s about being open to explore and play with this potential, simply observing what we notice without judgment.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is a transformative coach dedicated to empowering individuals to get out of their own way and make a meaningful impact in the world. With an impactful, nurturing coaching style, Jen supports clients in unlocking their potential and achieving their goals. As an experienced coach and trainer, she guides clients from self-doubt to success.

Discover how Jen can support you to get out of your own way here.


Fresh questions = new insights?

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The text reads: "Take heed you do not find what you do not seek." (English Proverb)

Today’s quote is actually a proverb:

“Take heed you do not find what you do not seek.” (English proverb)

This timeless wisdom resonates deeply in our fast-paced world, where we often find ourselves seeking answers to questions that may not truly address our underlying concerns.

As coaches, we understand the frustration that arises when our efforts to find solutions only lead to dead ends. We’ve all experienced moments of perplexity, where it seems like the harder we search, the further we drift from clarity.

But what if one key to unlocking new insights lies not in relentless searching, but in the art of asking fresh questions?

Pause for a moment and quiet your mind, as best you can, in this moment. In the stillness, ask what would be really useful for you to get a new thought about? What fresh questions would be useful for you to ask?

Just as altering the phrasing of a Google search can yield a wealth of diverse results, so too can reframing our internal queries lead to unexpected discoveries. Embrace the power of introspection and self-inquiry and allow yourself to access your own creativity and wisdom.

It’s natural to feel hesitant about embracing unfamiliar questions. After all, we’re creatures of habit, drawn to the comfort of the familiar. But true growth lies beyond the confines of our comfort zone. By challenging ourselves to explore new perspectives, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities.

Fresh questions

So, what questions are worth asking? That’s for you to decide. Perhaps you’re grappling with a complex problem at work, struggling to find a solution that eludes you. Instead of dwelling on the same tired inquiries, consider approaching the issue from a fresh angle. Are you trying to find an answer for an outcome that you dont have total control over as opposed to looking for ways that increase the probability of that event happening – For example “a business service making money” as oppose to how to “inviting people to experience your service”.

Remember, it only takes one new thought to shift your perspective and illuminate a path forward. By embracing curiosity and openness, you empower yourself to uncover hidden truths and forge new pathways to success.

As coaches, we have a unique opportunity to guide others on this transformative journey of self-discovery. Through thoughtful questioning and active listening, we can help our clients navigate the maze of their own minds and unearth the answers that lie within.

In conclusion, let us heed the wisdom of the ages and take heed not to find what we do not seek. Instead, let us embrace the power of fresh questions to illuminate our path and inspire meaningful change. For in the pursuit of new insights lies the promise of growth, fulfillment, and a life truly lived.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.


Coaching Insights from Archimedes: Empowering Change through Leverage

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The text across the white space reads: "Give me a place to stand and with a lever I will move the whole world." (Archimedes of Syracuse)

Today’s quote is:

“Give me a place to stand and with a lever I will move the whole world.” (Archimedes of Syracuse)

These timeless words from Archimedes of Syracuse, although rooted in physics, I feel also carry profound implications for the realm of coaching. In the context of coaching, we serve as the architects of that “place to stand,” empowering individuals to discover their unique levers for transformative change. This post explores the parallels between Archimedes’ concept and the coaching journey, inviting you to reflect on your own “place to stand” and the levers that can move your world.

Coaching as the “Place to Stand”:

One aspect of coaching, at its essence, is about providing individuals with a solid foundation – a place to stand. It’s the ground from which dreams, ambitions, and goals can be launched into reality. I suspect that what we think that place to stand is and how we describe it could vary depending upon your coaching approach. However, I also think that most coaches would agree that we offer support, guidance, and a safe space for exploration, creating the stable ground on which clients can build their visions for a better future.

Discovering the Personal Lever for Insights:

Archimedes’ quote also speaks to the identification of a lever, a strategic point of influence that, when activated, can generate significant movement. In coaching, this lever represents the unique strengths, talents, and capabilities of an individual. It’s the realisation that, by tapping into these inherent qualities, one can enact powerful and positive change in various aspects of life.

From a coaches perspective I think it can also apply to that question that makes a difference for that client, or a loose thread from something a client is telling you about that when you pull on it brings fresh insight.

The Privilege of Coaching:

As coaches, we are privileged witnesses to the transformative journeys of our clients. Guiding them as they discover their “place to stand” and personal levers is a profound experience. We watch individuals grow, evolve, and ultimately move their world in ways they might not have thought possible. It’s a privilege to be part of their empowering process.

Reflecting on Your “Place to Stand”:

Today, I invite you to consider your own life and coaching practice. What is that one thing in your life where if you alter where you “stand,” you would get more movement? Reflect on the stable ground you’ve created for yourself and where you can leverage your unique strengths for greater impact.

As you embark on this reflective journey, remember the wisdom of Archimedes. For me. coaching is not just about imparting knowledge; it’s about facilitating self-discovery, providing a solid foundation, and identifying personal levers for change.

Taking this quote as a metaphore I think the wisdom echoes through the centuries, finding resonance in the coaching landscape. As coaches, we stand alongside individuals, offering them a place to stand and guiding them to discover the levers that can move their worlds. On this Sunday, may your reflections lead you to newfound insights and empower positive change in your life.

Happy Sunday and happy coaching!

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.