Yesterday’s quote, was the proverb: “A golden key can open any door”
One of the questions I posted in relation to that was, “How do you interpret the metaphor of a ‘golden key’ in relation to unlocking the potential of your clients?”
Which got me thinking, what do I currently think the key to my coaching is, what is it that consistently makes the biggest difference?
I’m fairly certain that my answer to this question today, is different to how I would have answered this 10 or 15 years ago. So If you’re pondering this for yourself and your coaching, I’m going to add at this stage – it’s OK for your answer to change over time. Personally, I think it’s natural for your style, understanding and approach to evolve over time and not stay static.
Today, my answer is for clients to find their authentic self, for them to connect to their own essence and their soul to awaken.
Unlocking Authentic Potential
In a world where external pressures and societal expectations often obscure our true nature, helping clients reconnect with their authentic selves can be transformative. It involves peeling back the layers of conditioning and societal expectations to reveal the core essence that lies beneath.
By encouraging clients to tap into their inner wisdom and intuition, you’re providing them with the key to unlocking their innate potential. This process of self-discovery and soul awakening is not about conforming to external standards or expectations, but about honouring and embracing the unique qualities that make each individual who they are.
One of the aspects I value about coaching is holding a safe and supportive space for clients to explore and express their authentic selves. Whilst not compulsory, it’s not unusual for clients to have some fear about who or what their authentic self really is – they often fear that there’s something wrong with them, and it can feel really vulnerable to look in that direction.
Through this process, clients can gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their desires, paving the way for greater clarity, purpose, and fulfilment in their lives. They begin to see themselves not as they think they should be, but as they truly are – worthy, capable, and deserving of all the goodness life has to offer.
In essence, the “golden key” to unlocking the potential of your clients lies in helping them reconnect with their authentic selves and awaken to the fullness of who they are. It’s about guiding them towards a deeper understanding of their innate worth and potential, empowering them to step into their greatness with confidence and authenticity. Being ourselves simplifies life. When we embrace our true selves, complexities fade away. When you really get to know your true self, your essence, your soul, then I suspect you will be pleasantly surprised – even if you’re reading this thinking, but she doesn’t know me, I’m worthless/unloveable etc.
As you continue on your coaching journey, embracing the metaphor of the “golden key” can serve as a powerful reminder of the profound impact you have the potential to make in the lives of your clients. Your interpretation of what a golden key in your coaching may be entirely different from mine. And that’s okay; it doesn’t make either of us right or wrong. We simply have different approaches and likely work with different clients.
I think it’s interesting and probably useful as a coach to be able to start to describe what impact your coaching can have – what that golden key could do for your clients. For me, helping clients unlock the doors to their authentic selves, it’s not just facilitating personal growth – you’re igniting a transformational journey that has the power to change their lives forever.
About Jen Waller
Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.
As an experienced coach and trainer, Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.