kindness – Coaching Confidence

The Speech You Actually Gave

20 October 2025 by Jen Waller

A warm orange speech bubble on a white background, containing the quote: "There are always three speeches, for every one you actually gave. The one you practiced, the one you gave, and the one you wish you gave." (Dale Carnegie) The image evokes communication, reflection, and the humanness of imperfection.

We often replay moments wishing they’d gone differently, but connection lives in what was real — not what might have been.
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When Light Spreads

10 August 2025 by Jen Waller

A soft white background with a horizontal band of glowing blue light at the centre, fading into white. Above the light is the quote: "All human souls, never so bedarkened, love light; light once kindled spreads till all is luminous." (Thomas Carlyle)

A single spark can change everything—sometimes the smallest light grows quietly until all is luminous.
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Being the Friend You’re Looking For

30 July 2025 by Jen Waller

An image with three white, faceless, clay-like figures standing in a circle and raising their arms to touch hands in a shared high five. The quote above them reads: "The only way to have a friend is to be one." (Ralph Waldo Emerson) The figures appear joyful and connected, symbolising unity and mutual support.

If you were being a good friend to you, what would shift?
Would you notice the kinder thoughts, offer more space, or stop second-guessing your needs?
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Cultivating Self-Care: A Life-Long Journey of Kindness

25 July 202425 July 2024 by Jen Waller

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” (Oscar Wilde) Yesterday was International Self-Care Day, and I had intended to write this post then. However, when I sat down to write and asked myself what I could do in that moment to take better care of myself, the answer I got was to … Read more

A Coaching Invite To Be Kinder Than Is Necessary

10 April 2024 by Jen Waller

This image has a dreamlike golden glow about it. A tranquil stream runs throw the middle and out into the distance. On each side is lush grass with flowers mixed in. Rolling fields and tress are in the distance to the horizon, where the sun is setting. The text reads: "Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?" (J.M. Barrie, The Little White Bird)

Today’s quote is: “Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?” (J.M. Barrie, The Little White Bird) In the realm of coaching, where transformation and growth are paramount, kindness often emerges as a silent yet powerful force. J.M. Barrie’s quote invites us … Read more

A Gentle Approach: Nurturing Kindness in Coaching Practice

2 April 202430 March 2024 by Jen Waller

This image is looking down onto what looks like a heart shaped cookie cutter sat on a white surface. Within the heart shape are seeds that are filled up and level with the top of the cookie cutter. Outside of the contained seeds is a gap and then seeds are strewn apparently more randomly and not as contained. The text reads: "In scattering seeds of kindness, do it by hand and not by machine." (George Ade)

Happy Saturday! Today’s quote is: “In scattering seeds of kindness, do it by hand and not by machine.” (George Ade) As coaches, our primary aim is to nurture growth, foster development, and inspire positive change in our clients. We strive to empower them to reach their fullest potential, guiding them through challenges and celebrating their … Read more

Radiating Sunshine: Spreading Joy and Kindness in Coaching

13 March 2024 by Jen Waller

Happy Wednesday! Today’s quote is: “Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.” (J. M. Barrie) In the realm of coaching, we often encounter profound truths that resonate deeply with our understanding of human nature and our capacity for positive change. One such truth is beautifully encapsulated in the … Read more

Random Acts of Kindness: A Reflection for Coaches

17 February 2024 by Jen Waller

Today marks Random Acts of Kindness Day, a perfect opportunity to reflect on the profound impact of kindness in our lives and those around us. As we “celebrate” this day, here’s today’s quote: “The single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make fresh trees.” (Frederick William … Read more