Today’s quote is:

“Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind!” (Henri-Frédéric Amiel)

In the realm of coaching, amidst the goals, strategies, and growth, it’s easy to overlook the profound impact of love. Yet, Henri-Frédéric Amiel’s timeless words remind us of the essence of our role: “Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind!”

Love, in the context of coaching, extends far beyond romantic notions. It embodies a deep, unconditional compassion for our clients and a genuine desire for their well-being and success. In that context love fuels our commitment to walk alongside them on their journey, offering unwavering support and encouragement.

But what does it mean to embrace love as coaches?

• Authentic Connection: Love begins with authentic connection. Building a genuine rapport with our clients fosters trust and creates a safe space for vulnerability and growth. It involves truly seeing and valuing them as individuals, beyond their goals or achievements.
• Empathy and Understanding: Love is empathizing with our clients’ struggles and challenges. It’s about stepping into their shoes, understanding their experiences, and validating their emotions without judgment. Empathy cultivates a deeper connection and allows us to offer more meaningful support.
• Unconditional Positive Regard: Love is offering unconditional positive regard. It means accepting our clients wholeheartedly, percieved flaws and all, and believing in their inherent worth and potential for growth. It involves celebrating their strengths and successes while compassionately guiding them through setbacks.
• Compassionate Accountability: Love is holding our clients accountable with compassion. It’s about challenging them to stretch beyond what they think are their comfort zones. Compassionate accountability balances high expectations with unwavering support, empowering clients to reach their fullest potential.

Beyond our coaching practice, how can we embody love in our lives?

• Cultivating Self-Love: Love begins within ourselves. Taking some time to listen to ourselves, and practicing self-compassion are essential for our well-being and resilience as coaches.
• Nurturing Relationships: Love extends to our relationships with family, friends, and community. Investing time and energy into nurturing these connections enriches our lives and strengthens our capacity for empathy and understanding.
• Spreading Kindness: Love is contagious. Engaging in acts of kindness and generosity towards others uplifts spirits and fosters a sense of unity and connection within our communities.
• Embracing Gratitude: Love is appreciating the beauty and abundance in our lives. Cultivating a practice of gratitude cultivates a positive mindset and deepens our appreciation for the richness of life.

In conclusion, for me. love lies at the heart of coaching, guiding our interactions, decisions, and intentions. What did the quote prompt for you? What else would you add to the lists I started? You’re welcome to add your own thoughts in the comments below.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.