Anne Bronte


Awakening The Soul: What’s At The Heart Of Your Coaching?

A clear blue sky apart from two elongated whispy, feathered clouds which form the shape of two angel wings. The text reads: "My soul is awakened, my spirit is soaring And carried aloft on the wings of the breeze." (Anne Bronte)

Today’s quote is:

“My soul is awakened, my spirit is soaring And carried aloft on the wings of the breeze.” (Anne Bronte)

Do you recognise the description that is being used in this quote? For me it’s pointing to our innate wisdom and resilience of the human spirit. That our experience of life is not determined by external circumstances, but by the quality of our thinking in any given moment. Just as a breeze carries us aloft, when we are in a high state of consciousness, as opposed to a low mood, it feels like we are awake to the limitless possibilities that lie within.

When we’re not in that state, and a low mood, it may seem like we’re walking through treacle and even the idea that the ease and flow that’s being pointed to in the quote can seem so far out of reach and even impossible to see.

Consider, for a moment, the implications of Bronte’s words in the context of coaching. When our soul is awakened, we tap into a deeper sense of purpose and meaning. We connect with our innate wisdom and intuition, guiding us towards paths of fulfilment and joy. As coaches, we have the privilege of facilitating this awakening in our clients, helping them connect with their inner truth and wisdom.

Moreover, when our spirit is soaring, we experience a profound sense of freedom and expansiveness. We transcend the limitations of our ego-driven mind, embracing a state of flow and alignment with the universe. In coaching, we encourage clients to tap into this state of flow, guiding them towards goals they really want and aspirations that resonate with their authentic selves.

Have you noticed how you can tell when a client’s soul is awakened? They come alive, you can hear it in their voice and see the spark in their eyes. One of the ways I personally like to think about my coaching is it’s about finding that spark and fanning it into a flame, it’s that impactful nurturing that I may not know what the content of our conversations will be once that’s been lit but I know that there is a very different feel once we’re there.

In my coaching, I recognise that the awakening of the soul is not a destination but a journey—a journey of self-discovery and transformation. It’s about tapping into our innate wisdom and intuition, guiding us towards paths of fulfilment and joy. As a coach, I view it as a huge privilege of facilitating this awakening in our clients and helping them connect with their inner truth and wisdom.

Moreover, when our spirit is soaring, we experience a profound sense of freedom and expansiveness. We transcend the limitations of our ego-driven mind, embracing a state of flow and alignment with the universe. In coaching, we encourage clients to tap into this state of flow, guiding them towards goals and aspirations that resonate with their authentic selves.

In coaching, you may encounter clients who feel that they are walking through treacle, trapped in a cycle of negative thinking and self-doubt. They may feel overwhelmed by external circumstances or disconnected from their inner truth. Yet, it is precisely in these moments of darkness that the light of transformation begins to shine.

As a coach, I see my role as a guide and companion on this journey of self-discovery. We create a safe and supportive space for clients to explore, guiding them towards greater clarity and insight. We remind them of their innate resilience and resourcefulness, that empower them to overcome obstacles and setbacks with courage and grace.

At the heart of my coaching lies a deep commitment to awakening the soul and guiding clients towards their innate wisdom and resilience. What lies at the heart of your coaching practice? Perhaps we use different words to describe the same essence, or maybe you have a unique philosophy and approach. I invite you to explore and discover what truly drives your coaching practice.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer, Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.


Navigating Challenges in Coaching and embracing imperfection

This image is just a bold black quote in text on a white background. The text reads: "There is always a 'but' in this imperfect world." Below in smaller none-bold capital letters is the person's name who said the quote: (Anne Bronte)

Today’s quote is:

“There is always a ‘but’ in this imperfect world.” (Anne Bronte)

Coaching, to me, is about guiding someone towards their true self. This quote resonates with me because it applies to coaching as well. There will always be hurdles to overcome, challenges to face, and uncertainties to navigate. But it’s how we deal with these ‘buts’ that truly define us.

I don’t get disgruntled if a client has a “but” response to a question or story. To me, it’s just an indication of how the world looks to them. It often reveals what’s getting in their way. I prefer honest, real answers rather than what a client thinks they “should” say or what I want to hear. That’s where we can actually move forward.

Each ‘but’ presents a chance to delve deeper, explore new perspectives, and discover untapped potential. It’s through facing these challenges that we inspire, motivate, and empower those we coach. In my previous role as a corporate trainer, we often looked at objection handling as something to be overcome. Now, it’s more of a discussion between two willing participants about what the situation looks like to them.

What stands out in this quote is the acknowledgment of life’s inherent imperfections and the recognition that they are an integral part of the coaching process. It reminds us that perfection is not the goal; rather, it’s the continuous pursuit of growth and development that defines our success as coaches. In fact, an expectation of perfection can often keep someone stuck from taking any action whatsoever. That doesn’t mean that we can’t strive to improve our skills, but we can relieve any pressure from expecting everything to be perfect every time.

So, let’s embrace the imperfections, the ‘buts’ of coaching, and use them as fuel to propel ourselves and our clients forward. Let’s embrace the challenges, knowing that they are the stepping stones to greatness. Together, let’s navigate this imperfect world with courage, compassion, and unwavering determination.

What resonates with you in this quote? How do you approach the ‘buts’ in your coaching practice? Share your thoughts and insights in the comments below.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.