Silence

“It’s the silence between the notes that makes the music.” (Zen proverb) There’s the old question that soft skills trainers have often been heard to ask, “What is the opposite of talking?” I’ve been known to ask groups this myself as an introduction into a topic and there is always a proportion who answer that … Read more

Listening

Today see’s our first Friday Guest Post at Coaching Confidence. Listening By Liz Scott What is THE most important coaching skill?  Is it being non-directive?  Is it asking the right question?  These might be important aspects of coaching – but in my book THE most important skill for a coach is the ability to listen.  … Read more

When to start charging?

This is a question that I’ve seen many new coaches and other change workers ask themselves and others. I certainly remember asking myself the question about when to start charging and several people had an opinion and different approaches. I’m not going to tell you what you should do but let me share the following … Read more

Moments in Time

This piece I wrote back in 2008 and was initially published on the blog Your Changing Direction. For a couple of reasons this week I have been thinking about time, or to be more precise, how time can effect our perception of a situation we’re in. The bits of history that have always fascinated me concern … Read more

Coaching circles and practice groups invitation

I know that there are coaching circles and practice groups running all over the world. If you have never come across the term before then let me briefly explain, because the rest of this post will then make a lot more sense. 🙂 A coaching circle or practice group is when a group of coaches … Read more

What do you want to read?

Seriously, that’s my question to you. This is a blog for coaches and those interested in coaching. I want quality and valuable content and one of the easiest ways I know to provide that is to ask you what you want to read. If this is your first visit to Coaching Confidence then please have … Read more