Today’s quote is actually a proverb:

“Take heed you do not find what you do not seek.” (English proverb)

This timeless wisdom resonates deeply in our fast-paced world, where we often find ourselves seeking answers to questions that may not truly address our underlying concerns.

As coaches, we understand the frustration that arises when our efforts to find solutions only lead to dead ends. We’ve all experienced moments of perplexity, where it seems like the harder we search, the further we drift from clarity.

But what if one key to unlocking new insights lies not in relentless searching, but in the art of asking fresh questions?

Pause for a moment and quiet your mind, as best you can, in this moment. In the stillness, ask what would be really useful for you to get a new thought about? What fresh questions would be useful for you to ask?

Just as altering the phrasing of a Google search can yield a wealth of diverse results, so too can reframing our internal queries lead to unexpected discoveries. Embrace the power of introspection and self-inquiry and allow yourself to access your own creativity and wisdom.

It’s natural to feel hesitant about embracing unfamiliar questions. After all, we’re creatures of habit, drawn to the comfort of the familiar. But true growth lies beyond the confines of our comfort zone. By challenging ourselves to explore new perspectives, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities.

Fresh questions

So, what questions are worth asking? That’s for you to decide. Perhaps you’re grappling with a complex problem at work, struggling to find a solution that eludes you. Instead of dwelling on the same tired inquiries, consider approaching the issue from a fresh angle. Are you trying to find an answer for an outcome that you dont have total control over as opposed to looking for ways that increase the probability of that event happening – For example “a business service making money” as oppose to how to “inviting people to experience your service”.

Remember, it only takes one new thought to shift your perspective and illuminate a path forward. By embracing curiosity and openness, you empower yourself to uncover hidden truths and forge new pathways to success.

As coaches, we have a unique opportunity to guide others on this transformative journey of self-discovery. Through thoughtful questioning and active listening, we can help our clients navigate the maze of their own minds and unearth the answers that lie within.

In conclusion, let us heed the wisdom of the ages and take heed not to find what we do not seek. Instead, let us embrace the power of fresh questions to illuminate our path and inspire meaningful change. For in the pursuit of new insights lies the promise of growth, fulfillment, and a life truly lived.

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.