Procrastination


A quick look at procrastination

An hour glass with sand draining through, so the sand is approximately split 50% in the top section and 50% in the bottom. Surrounding the glass are piles of papers stacked haphazardly. The text reads: "Things don't get any easier by putting them off." (W. Somerset Maugham)

Today’s quote is:

“Things don’t get any easier by putting them off.” (W. Somerset Maugham)

This serves as a poignant reminder of the pitfalls of procrastination that many of us grapple with in our daily lives.

Despite each of us having the same 24 hours at our disposal, productivity can vary significantly from one day to the next. This inconsistency begs the question: why do some days flow effortlessly, while others are marred by endless procrastination?

While there are exceptions to every rule, in most cases, delaying a task only serves to prolong the inevitable. However, there are instances where procrastination can be strategic, such as when a necessary preparatory step is involved. For example, enlisting the help of others or acquiring the right tools can make seemingly daunting tasks much more manageable.

But does Maugham’s quote imply that everything must be tackled immediately? Well, we get to decide what we take from the quote, so I would suggest not necessarily. Rather, one thing it could urge us to discern between procrastination and necessary preparation and take proactive steps to address tasks in a timely manner.

Have you ever completed a task and found it surprisingly easy? I recently experienced this when making a phone call on someone else’s behalf. What I anticipated to be a time-consuming process was resolved within minutes, highlighting the fallacy of our preconceived notions about task difficulty.

Reflecting on my own tendencies, I’ve identified three scenarios that often lead to procrastination. The first occurs when I prioritize other tasks over the one at hand, due to competing priorities. In such cases, delegating or seeking assistance can be invaluable. Not everything has to be done by you personally!

The second scenario arises when a task is perceived as dull, challenging, or unappealing. In these instances, reframing the task or approaching it with a fresh perspective can make a world of difference. Asking questions like, “How can I make this more enjoyable?” or “What would I do differently if this were the most important task?” can shift our mindset and spur action.

Additionally, it’s essential to question the necessity of certain tasks and consider alternative approaches. For instance, if a marketing strategy isn’t yielding results, is it truly necessary, or is there a more effective method?

Lastly, unrealistic expectations about task duration can contribute to procrastination. Accepting that tasks may take longer than anticipated and adjusting our schedules accordingly can alleviate unnecessary stress.

In conclusion, procrastination not only hinders productivity but also adds unnecessary pressure and stress to our lives. By recognizing the reality that “things don’t get any easier by putting them off” and adopting proactive strategies to address tasks head-on, we can reclaim our productivity and achieve our goals with greater ease and efficiency. What else does this quote prompt for you?

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer, Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.


What may be done at any time ….

Ther image is in black and an off white, similar to an image that could be found in an old paperback book.
There is a round clock face with roman numerals around the outside, it does not have any hands. Instead in the centre of the image is a snowy forest scene in silhouette. A figure can be seen in the mid distance.
Around the outside of the clock face is a stary night sky with planets and snow mountains.
Beneath this image is the text: "What may be done at any time will be done at no time." (Scottish proverb)

Today’s quote of the day is actually a proverb:

“What may be done at any time will be done at no time” (Scottish proverb)

People often utilize the start of a new year as an opportunity to contemplate their accomplishments and aspirations. It is common to have a list of tasks, encompassing both personal and professional spheres, that we continuously postpone with the belief that they can be tackled at any time. However, the question arises: how frequently do we actually leave these tasks unfinished?

Regarding the proverb Tasks postponed are tasks abandoned, coaches may interpret it in various ways. It can serve as a gentle yet pragmatic reminder to seize opportunities promptly and avoid procrastination. By prioritizing tasks and addressing them promptly, we can maximize our productivity each day.

Then there is also a nudge to actually check what we have on our mental to do list is just something that is purely there to beat ourselves up about not doing – there’s no actual consequencies if its not done, its not something you actually want to do etc.

I invite you to ponder on the following questions:

What tasks have you put off for a “later” that never seems to come?

Are these actually tasks that need doing, or just something that clutters up your head/ can be used to beat yourself up with when not done?

Are there things there that don’t need doing but you want to do?

(I’m not saying scrap you’re entire to do list, I’m just suggesting that some times its worth checking what is actually on there and if its still relivent)

What steps can you take today towards accomplishing what you’ve been postponing?

How will completing these tasks impact what you’re wanting to work on this year?

What else springs to your mind? Feel free to drop a comment below and share

About Jen Waller

Jen Waller

Jen Waller is on a mission to support, nurture and encourage coaching skills and talents from non-coach to coach and beyond.

As an experienced coach and trainer Jen is happy to utilise all skills at her disposal to assist clients from getting out of their own way and making a difference in the world with their coaching. Find out more about the support Jen offers here.


TED Talk Tuesday 7th August 2018

This week the clip chosen because of its potential interest to coaches is from a 2016 TED Talk. Even if as a coach procrastination isn’t something you personally have any issues with, you’ve probably had a conversation with a client who has left something to the last minute! What happens if a self described master procrastinator accepts an invite to deliver a TED Talk?

Inside the mind of a master procrastinator by Tim Urban


Clip length: 14 mins 04 secs

If you want to read more from Tim Urban giving an account of writing, delivering and subsequently attending the rest of the TED conference he wrote a post on the subject on his site here.

Prefer to watch via YouTube? In that case you’ll need to click here.


Procrastinators, if not now, when?

In this weeks guest post Minda Miloff shares some of her knowledge and coaching experience.

Procrastinators, if not now, when?

by Minda Miloff

Procrastination is the practice of carrying out less urgent tasks in preference to more urgent ones, or doing more pleasurable things in place of less pleasurable ones, and thus putting off impending tasks to a later time, sometimes to the “last minute” before the deadline.  – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The secret of getting ahead is getting started. 

Mark Twain

Was Rodin's Thinker really a Procrastinator?

Was Rodin’s Thinker really a Procrastinator?

There’s no single type of procrastinator and no single explanation for why procrastinators do their thing, or, rather, don’t do the things they should be doing.

What I see in my coaching practice are three types of procrastinators:

  • Chronic procrastinators, who have difficulty starting and finishing most tasks.
  • Situational procrastinators, who avoid certain kinds of tasks.
  • Rebellious procrastinators, who dodge or evade imposed tasks.

Regardless of type, procrastinators usually feel bad, stressed and guilty about their habit of not getting things done in a timely manner or not getting things done at all.

If I could stand the guilt or stress I probably would be a procrastinator. But, I don’t do well when I’m stressed, falling behind, missing deadlines, or late.  I hate being late with library books! For me, the benefits of doing things on time far outweighs the high costs of procrastination.

Yet who doesn’t have difficulties choosing between more pleasurable tasks that give you a quick fix and the tougher less pleasurable tasks that require discipline, commitment and getting your hands dirty or at least sweaty?
For example:

  • Do I go to exercise class or stay at home and watch a movie?
  • Should I order in food or make something healthy?
  • Should I tackle that tough project or wait till I clear my Inbox?

What you find if you do a Google search, or a literature review of the research on procrastination, or consult procrastinators, are:

  • Irrational reasons for postponing doing something they know they will feel bad about later.
  • Concerns about others controlling, imposing or dictating deadlines or tasks that they would prefer to decide for themselves (the rebellious type!).
  • Anxiety-producing stress leading to a range of responses and emotions:
    • Desire to avoid any unpleasant and uncomfortable feeling;
    • Worry about not doing something well (perfectionist streak);
    • Fear of not knowing how to do something (incompetence);
    • Paralysis due to the complexity or number of tasks (fear of failure); and
    • Certainty they might not be making a right decision.

Are you are one of those people who gets down on yourself about not getting stuff done? Are you easily distracted? Impulsive?  Or prone to avoiding stressful tasks in favour of more pleasurable pursuits?

If you are saying “yes” then here are some ideas that will help you kick the procrastination habit. Or at least minimize the negative impact of putting off tasks till later.

The first three ideas are foundations for the others.  As with any change, it’s best to start with small steps.

  1. Work with a short timeline – day to day, week to week, and month to month.
  2. Don’t make a big resolution – “I’m done with procrastinating and I’m doing everything on-time from now on” – because that will never work.
  3. What is most important is to never stop trying. When you fall short of your good intentions, which is inevitable, don’t give up. Try again.
  4. Ask for help – there is usually someone in your life who can help you break down that long list of tasks into smaller and more manageable pieces.
  5. Self-impose a few deadlines with tasks that are important to you and, if that doesn’t work, seek out externally imposed deadlines (e.g. from your spouse or a friend)
  6. Counter the temptation to surf the Net by using apps that block you from Facebook or other sites that are more pleasurable than the task at hand.
  7. Use timers on your smart phone or on your stove to keep you on-time and track.
  8. Recognize you are compromising longer-term goals (that really matter) for short term pleasures (that just prompt you to seek out more short-term fun to cover up your feelings of guilt).
  9. Tell yourself a story about the importance of conquering procrastination, how it will make your life better, or how you will feel better about yourself.
  10. If all else fails, work with a coach!  You need help.

Keep trying,
Coach Minda

Often I feel that projects overwhelm us when we look at how many hours are involved until completion. But just getting started is usually not that difficult. 
Emily Giffin

About Minda Miloff

Minda Miloff, M.A., has developed, implemented and managed educational and training programs for over twenty years – for blue chip companies, professional associations and non-profit organizations.

In her coaching practice she helps clients:

  • Improve their productivity and effectiveness, at work and at home
  • Make the most of work relationships with superiors, direct reports and colleagues
  • Develop time management and organizational skills, overcome procrastination, increase focus, concentration and motivation, become professionally and personally more effective
  • Adopt healthier lifestyle habits and learn healthier responses to stress in all phases of life

Typical coaching clients are:

  • Assessing a career change or coping with a challenging new job
  • Struggling with time management and prioritizing tasks
  • Looking for practical solutions to problems at work or at home

Coach Minda – provides confidential coaching services in Montreal, and internationally by telephone or by SKYPE.

To know more about her services, email: mi**********@sy*******.ca

Visit her website www.coachminda.com to learn more about her work history and achievements or to review client testimonials


Lesson 9: Procrastination 2

Coach Julia Neiman shares her expertise and knowledge in today’s guest post:

An introduction by today’s guest poster coach Julia Neiman:

The following “Lesson” is an excerpt from my new Ebook, 31 Powerful Lessons: Empowering Teens and Young Adults to Develop an Entrepreneur Mindset. While the majority of my clients over the years have been transitional age youth from 18 to 25 years old, I am now coaching parents, teachers, coaches, mentors, social workers and others who work with this age group. Procrastination is something that I find affects people of all ages and as coaches, I’m sure you’ve seen this in your clients and perhaps even have a touch of it yourself. I know I do.

In this lesson, I present 5 common beliefs and attitudes that lead to procrastination in the hopes that coming to understand why we procrastinate can lead to our breaking this habit. I hope you find it useful.

Julia Neiman guest post about Procrastination

Lesson 9: Procrastination

by Julia Neiman

Telling ourselves and others that we are going to do something is a far cry from actually doing it. The distance between intention and behavior is often quite large. Statistics show that for every intention 1 in 2 people will end up not following through on their planned action. That’s a lot of nothing getting done.

One of the causes of this is the action of constantly putting things off, known as procrastination. A key attribute of procrastination is a tendency to over think a particular course of action to the point that you spend most your time thinking rather than actually doing. This state is commonly known as paralysis by analysis. I’ve been known to procrastinate once in a while. I try not to allow myself to do that because it leads to feeling overwhelmed then I just want to crawl into bed and pull the covers over my head.

Sometimes by thinking less we are able to achieve more.

Here are five common beliefs and attitudes that lead to the debilitating effects of procrastination:

1. The possibility of failure

Many people talk themselves out of working towards their goals because they are afraid they may fail. To their way of thinking, by not taking action they are able protect themselves from the possibility of failure.

Most procrastinators have a strong idea of what they want, but often the fear of failure and the thoughts that surround this paralyzing emotion are so intense that productivity is slowed down or stops altogether.

2. The perfectionist syndrome

Another common attitude within the mindset of a procrastinator is the need for everything to be perfect before work commences. Often this involves optimizing one’s environment and work space so that maximum comfort and ease is created.

The problem with this mindset is that working environments are never ideal, and never will be, unless you are prepared to invest a significant amount of your own time creating the ultimate work environment.

Understand that there is no substitute for real productive action, so even if your workplace is not ideal it is advisable to forge ahead nevertheless. Thank goodness I’m not a perfectionist because my workspace is far from ideal.

3. The finite resource of time

Arguably a huge bias in the procrastinator’s thinking is the belief that time is an infinite resource. The common excuse “I will do it tomorrow” usually stems from an unconscious belief that there will always be time. Unfortunately this is not true, and for many procrastinators they end up looking back over their lives regretting they didn’t take the opportunities when they were presented to them.

It is so easy to fall into the trap of thinking like this, which is why if you are presented with a good idea, it is advisable that you act on it immediately.

4. Stepping into the unknown

Acting on your intentions often requires a leap of faith. Embarking on a worthwhile project always contains elements of the unknown.

The problem with many procrastinators is that they are terrified of taking a leap of faith into the unknown. They want a guarantee that their efforts will not be in vain.

This may result in the procrastinator doing unnecessary research in an attempt to further control the likelihood of their actions becoming a success. Obviously planning is important before beginning any major task, but at the same time excessive planning can inhibit your ability to act at the right times.

5. Action should be easy

Another component of the procrastinator’s limiting mindset is the belief that everything, when taking constructive action towards their long-term goals will be plain sailing. Whenever hard work and long hours is mentioned a procrastinator is likely to put off whatever course of action they need to take.

All worthwhile projects involve overcoming difficulties and obstacles, and the procrastinator is often someone who foolishly believes that getting what you want shouldn’t be anything but easy.

What’s on the other side of procrastination?

If you can get past the mindset of the procrastinator, and you can begin actively working towards your goal, you may find that it becomes increasingly difficult to stop. You will find that over time you begin building up momentum towards your goals, to the point where everything is taken in your stride. There is no doubt about it, starting something is always the hardest part, but once you get in the grove your work flow will become more natural and easy.

“An object at rest tends to stay at rest; an object in motion tends to stay in motion” Sir Isaac Newton

About the Author/Further Resources

Julia NeimanJulia Neiman is the Founder of Transform For Life, an online coaching program for teens, and Executive Director of Group Home Consultants, a nonprofit that provides independent living skills training to transition age foster youth.

Julia has 20 years of experience working with troubled teens. She believes that their dreams matter and is passionate about helping them learn to make those dreams come true. To that end, Julia has just written her first book, 31 Powerful Lessons: Empowering Teens and Young Adults to Develop an Entrepreneur Mindset. The book is currently available only at her website as an ebook. Later this year the book will be available both as an audio book and a bound book.

Visit Julia’s website at http://www.julianeiman.com for a free download of a great organizational tool entitled, Get Stuff Done. Then check the Free Downloads Page for more free stuff.


Get it Done

By Stever Robbins

This week’s guest post takes the form of a Question and Answer session all about 9 steps to work less and do more.

Why do we procrastinate? What are some simple tips for beating procrastination?

Thinking causes procrastination. No, really. We build up tasks in our mind, thinking they’ll be huge, unachievable,or unpleasant. The remedy is to stop thinking and just start acting. Your brain will still get in your way, however. While you’re filling out your procrastinated expense reports, your brain will distract you with worries that you’re making no progress on the novel you’ve been procrastinating.

As I mention in my book, you can make your brain happy by speed-dating your tasks. List what you’re procrastinating. Start at the top and work on each task for exactly five minutes, then move to the next task. Use a timer to be precise. When you’re done, take a 5-10 minute break and do it again. Five minutes is short; your brain will let you do it. Since you’re hitting several of your procrastinated tasks, your brain knows you’ll get to your other tasks just five minutes from now. It frees you to focus completely on the task in front of you, yet guarantees you’ll go on to make progress on everything that’s important.

Your career background includes a lot of technology companies, but Step 3 of your 9 Steps to Work Less and Do More is called “Conquer Technology”. Why doesn’t technology automatically make us more productive? How can we use it to become more productive?

Don’t get me wrong; some technology really delivers on its promise. But often, technology saves effort in one place while adding effort in others. For example, each new gadget packs more capability into each device. What makes it attractive and fun also makes it distracting and kills our productivity.

Technology is a tool, nothing more, and nothing less. When a carpenter uses a screwdriver, she picks it up, uses it, and puts it down again. That’s how you use tools. Treat your technology the same way. Instead of being married to it everywhere you go, divorce your technology. Have it around, just not in front of you. Do your thinking on paper. Decide what you need to do. Then get out the tools to do it. If you need to do something on computer—like send email—get up, walk over to your computer, open the email program, send the email, close the program, and walk back to your main work area. By keeping each task distinct, you’ll learn to use your computer as a tool. Instead of being a distraction, it becomes a superb way of amplifying your focus. In that Step 3 of the book, I explained how I evaluate all of my gadgets to make sure they are delivering on their work-less-do-more promise; I suggest everyone do the as me.

Does being organized automatically mean you’re getting more done?

Being organized means you have a place for everything and everything goes in its place. When you’re disorganized, everything you do has the added burden of your having to search for the tools need to do it. For example, when you’re disorganized, writing a Thank You card is an adventure. You have to brave your Supply Pile. You hunt for 5 minutes to find the crumpled paper bag where you stuffed those Thank You cards. You start writing … only to find you’re out of stamps. A 10-minute trip to the Post Office, later your cards are ready to go. If you’re organized, you get out your Thank You cards and stamps. You write the Thank You card, stamp the envelope, and toss it in mailbox. Elapsed time: 30 seconds, instead of 15 minutes and 30 seconds.

If you use the 15 minutes you saved to get more done, then being organized helps you get more done in the same amount of time. Otherwise, you’re getting the same done in less time, freeing up the extra time to do something awesome. Like eat Oreo Ice Cream Cake. That’s one way being physically organized can help you be more productive. I also offer advice on how to organize your days and brain better in the book too.

In your book, you recommend people not consider all their options. How can this help someone get more done?

We love choice! We believe more choice means more happiness and more movement towards our goals! The research on choice refutes this, however. Give us more than two or three choices and we become less likely to act and more likely to regret any choice we take.

In daily life, this means too many options stalls us, and we end up less happy with our choices. We make and re-make our decisions until we’ve spent more time and money making the decision than the decision is actually worth.

By limiting our options, we limit the research needed for the choice, and we’re more likely to keep moving forward. My example is buying a digital camera. I’ve needed one for three years now, but there are too many to choose from. If I simply limit my options to the first ten cameras that appear on the Consumer Reports web site, the decision becomes much easier. Will I get the best camera possible? Probably not. But I will get a camera and start doing the photography I need to get done. Without limiting my choices, I stay paralyzed and stressed.

Leverage is usually a term applied to finance? The final step of your 9 Steps to Work Less and Do More is called “Leverage”. What do you mean when you use the term?

Leverage is a physics term. A lever is a simple machine. You put in a small force on the long end of a lever and get a strong force out. In finance, leverage means using a small amount of your own money to borrow a much greater amount, so you get huge financial effects using only a small amount of money.

In Get-it-Done Guy’s 9 Steps to Work Less and Do More, I use leverage to mean doing a small amount of work and getting a huge result. Choose ways of working where you work less and get outsized results. For example, most of us scribble down a to-do list as a way of keeping track of what we have to do today. You can get leverage by jotting down that list in a format that someone else can understand. Then you can hire an assistant, give them your old to-do lists, and they can hit the ground running. You are doing a little more work by writing neater and maybe elaborating each item a bit. Your return is immense, though, because your to-do list enables you to free up time by delegating.

What is an action day? Shouldn’t every day be an action day?

An action day is one of my favorite tips in the book and a great way to get things done while bonding with a friend. Call a friend who wants to have a super-productive day. Get together in person or by phone, each bringing a list of things you want to get done. Commit to making progress and start working. Check in at the top of each hour, report your last hour’s progress, and declare your next hour’s plan. Your promise to each other gets you started, and the hourly check-ins keep you on track. I find in-person or phone works best for action days.

Every day can be an action day if you have people willing to play. I wrote the final draft of my book by holding five action days a week. The action days kept me going through the rough patches, and a couple of the regular attendees became friends! An action day is pretty intense, though, and I found that two each week was a good number.

What is the biggest hindrance to your personal productivity? How do you deal with it?

The internet. The web and email are a large part of my job, and they’re both distraction machines. The moment I open an email or visit a web site to do research, I risk hours of distraction. Its siren song is extremely seductive and hard to resist…

My solution is to divorce my technology as I described earlier. Rather than thinking of my computer as “my computer,” I think of it as a different tools, depending on my task. Sometimes it’s my typewriter, sometimes it’s my reference book, and sometimes it’s my newspaper. When I think of it in terms of the tool I need at the moment, it helps me stay focused on the current task.

… and when that fails, I use a freeware program called Freedom on my Mac to shut down my internet connection for a couple of hours.

If a person can make just one change to make themselves more productive, what would you recommend they change?

Definitely Step 1, which is Live on Purpose. Regularly stop and ask yourself why you’re doing what you’re doing. Then make sure what you’re doing is really the best way to reach that goal. I do this a dozen times a day. “Why am I surfing Facebook?” “I dunno. Habit.” “Ok, self, get back to work!”

Living on Purpose goes far beyond your moment-to-moment tasks, however. I used to go to four or five business conferences each year. Why? “I’m doing important business development,” was my answer. Year, right. When reviewing my client list, I realized not a single client had come from attending a conference. My clients had only come from speaking at conferences. Now, I only attend conferences where I’m speaking, or if there’s some other compelling reason to be there.

You recommend that people schedule interruptions. How is this possible?

You schedule interruptions by setting aside a time block each day for dealing with interruptions. If you’re interrupted, quickly decide if it’s a show-stopping emergency. If not, jot it down on your “Interruptions” list. Wait until your scheduled interruption time and work on it then. If Bernice drops by, asking you to review a memo she’s written, just say, “I would be happy to. I’m busy right now. How about if I get back to you a little after 4 p.m.?” When your interruption time arrives, her memo will be on your list and you can handle it then. Often if the interruption is someone with a problem, they’ll solve it themselves when you make yourself their convenient rescue service.

Interruptions will take your time one way or another. If you schedule them, at least you can get work done in the meantime.

About the Author/ Further Resources

Stever Robbins is a serial entrepreneur, the author of Get-it-Done Guy’s 9 Steps to Work Less and Do More, host of the #1 iTunes business podcast  The Get-it-Done Guy, and an adjunct lecturer at Babson College. He is currently working on his 10th startup.

Stever holds regular action days. If you’d like to be on the announcement list, visit http://www.SteverRobbins.com/actiondays. Announcements of new action days are sent out once or twice a month.